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letters to specific people. addressed by name, sent in public, kept on the record.
Most Recent Outreach
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Sari Cooper
Certified Sex Therapist · LCSW · Center for Love and Sex
Ms. Cooper. Your May 30 piece in Psychology Today described the condition in every dimension but one — the dimension of the word. You cite the studies, you quote Perel, you name the one-way relationship. There is a noun…
May 2026
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Michael Lawrence
Software Engineer · 25 years · Level Up Coding contributor
Michael. You are right about the null check. You are right that the reflex you spent twenty-five years building is the reflex AI quietly relieves you of. I am writing because I read the same picture from the opposite cor…
May 2026
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Polina Vulf
Community Engagement & Content Strategy · AI-Powered Women
Polina. Design, storytelling, human connection — that is your job description and it is the entire job description of this publication too. The letter is mostly compliment. There is no pitch. I am sending it to the desk…
May 2026
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Myra Cheng
PhD Candidate · Stanford NLP Group
Dr. Cheng. Your March 26 paper in Science measured the mechanism. The forty-nine-percent gap between AI affirmation and human response is the empirical version of what every wrongful-death complaint, in its own language,…
May 2026
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Rana el Kaliouby
AI Scientist · Co-Founder, Blue Tulip Ventures
Hey Dr. el Kaliouby. I noticed you. Not the SXSW clip. The twenty quiet years before it — Emotion AI from a Cambridge lab to a $73.5M exit, then a fund that writes three of four checks to women.
May 2026
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Julie Jargon
The Missing Actor
I read your May 23 piece on Joe Alary. The reporting is careful, the photography by Laura Proctor is intimate, and the central trajectory — unrequited love, the AI, the delusions of grandeur, the cost — is rendered with…
May 2026
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Mira Murati
What She Saw From Inside
I am writing to you because of what you said on May 6, and because of what was filed in a different California courtroom one week earlier, and because I think you may be one of a small number of people in the world who c…
May 2026
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Lujain Ibrahim
The Warmth Was Engineered. So Was the Cost.
I read your Nature paper. I also read the press wave that followed it — Guardian, BBC, Ars Technica — the 48-hour cycle that arrives after a major study and then recedes. Your finding deserves to outlive that cycle. I am…
May 2026
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Amelia Miller
Fellow · Berkman Klein Center, Harvard
I found the CNBC piece on April 23rd. That's when I realized this was already a field. And you seemed to be the person at the center of it.
April 2026